Common Kibitzing

So a lot of things come to mind here. For starters, I believe that being kind to others on a daily basis is a huge accomplishment, so don't minimize the importance of it. Second, I don't like anyone to say negative things about my friends, and that includes you saying things about yourself. I know it's a total psycobabble word, but positive self-talk is another big thing I am into these days. Sometimes, the only person available to give you a pep-talk is you, don't make negative comments about yourself to others, and try not to think them in your head. Just living a life that brings a little kindness into the lives of others is a very important legacy, and just having no children who are biologically yours doesn't mean you don't influence the next generation! There's a lot of auntie work to be done! Come knit with me sometime soon! BTW-you do have skills, knitting and sewing are the first two that come to mind.