It's so easy to feel that way. :/ I wish I had it all figured out so I could tell you how not to, but I still feel that way a lot. Bleh.
The only thing I've made progress on is my perfectionism regarding my housekeeping. I have specific days where I will take care of it. Until then, it can sit. It's still not fun to have stuff pile up, but at least I'm not beating myself up because I don't feel like doing chores when I'm tired after work. It's okay to sit around after work and just do *nothing*. Really. :D
In regards to other things, *hug*. I think I'd feel that way, too.
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Date: 2010-03-23 06:44 pm (UTC)The only thing I've made progress on is my perfectionism regarding my housekeeping. I have specific days where I will take care of it. Until then, it can sit. It's still not fun to have stuff pile up, but at least I'm not beating myself up because I don't feel like doing chores when I'm tired after work. It's okay to sit around after work and just do *nothing*. Really. :D
In regards to other things, *hug*. I think I'd feel that way, too.