Feeling down

I have food issues and this means I also have weight issues although perhaps not the way I'd expect.

I tend to eat a higher protein diet. I have a dairy restriction but I only seem to react to cow's milk and can process goat and sheep's milk in limited quantities. But I had to cut out many of my favorite treats- ice cream, cheese cake, baked goods.

I have IBS and do not process green leafy vegetables and whole grains cause problems.

I have GERD and they tell me I should not have chocolate, citrus, or spicy food.

Now I'm scheduled for a cholesistectomy and they are telling me I need a really low fat diet for a few months thereafter.

So what, exactly, am I supposed to eat? Meat and cheese are out. Maybe clear broth? Maybe I'll finally lose weight, but I doubt it.

I'm so frustrated I'm crying.