Grump!

Apparently the loan from my father came with strings from  my mother.  She seems to think she now has a say in how I use my money and she's being vocal about the fact that she thinks I'm wasting it by doing things like going to the Ballet and buying shoes.  I can't figure out quite how to deal with this.  I'm not in a position where I can pay the money back, or easily take over the payment on my school loans.  I can try to put the house on the market but I still have to find someplace I can live.  Or I can just deal with being under their thumb until I can figure it out. *sigh*